Here's the thing....

I am a mom and wife before anything else and I love that, I love that I have this mostly helpless little baby boy who relies on me for all of his major needs! I love that I am lucky enough to stay home all day with him and I'm very happy that I have an amazing husband who supports me and our baby boy so that I can stay with him and raise our son in our own home! I'm lucky that I have friends that respect that we have a baby and they still want to stick around and hang out with us even when he is grumpy and screaming and taking away our time with them! I wish things were different and people weren't misled and we were friends with these people sooner rather than later! I'm sad to say that this is not the case with some people, people who I thought would always be around, people who act like our life is over now, people who try and make us feel guilty for having our son. Well let me go ahead and put this out in the open for you....I am still the same person I have always been now I just have another role as a mom...if I cared that much about ending my social life I wouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place! Life isn't about the little things like how many friends you have, or how much money you make (last time I checked money can't buy happiness). Life is about the memories you make with the ones you love and the ones who love you. That is what makes me the happiest girl in the world! Stop trying to make me feel bad for making a family of my own and moving on from the high school drama that was years ago. I'm moving on and making memories with the people who love and support us!

Thanks to those people who are still standing by us and loving on our little man!